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PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 11:13 
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Paula is in a powerful position within the movement and will probably sway a lot of her fellows.

Homosexuals will keep forcing issues until there is a backlash that will cause a lot of misery. It has happened in the past, noteably in England in the Victorian era and that ushered in over a hundred years of persecution within the Empire and the later Commonwealth.


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Paula is in a powerful position within the movement and will probably sway a lot of her fellows.


That is not necessarily how it works. Surprisingly, a lot of people can think for themselves and know what they want. Also, the movement already has a lot of people in it that express themselves and their requests for equality, and they already have a well-heard voice which does not include all of Paula's views.

Even so, as I said, this is not going to affect religious marriage unless the religion itself changes, so from that end of things there s no need to worry.

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Homosexuals will keep forcing issues until there is a backlash that will cause a lot of misery.


This is a pretty vague statement that seems filled with assumption. What sort of backlash? What sort of misery? Whose misery? How do you know that this backlash and misery is inevitable?

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It has happened in the past, noteably in England in the Victorian era and that ushered in over a hundred years of persecution within the Empire and the later Commonwealth.


If you could describe this in more detail or post a link or something this would be interesting to read - I don't really know anything about it.


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quote="Samuel"]It has happened in the past, noteably in England in the Victorian era and that ushered in over a hundred years of persecution within the Empire and the later Commonwealth.


If you could describe this in more detail or post a link or something this would be interesting to read - I don't really know anything about it[/quote]
In the Victorian era the last person to be hanged for a homosexual offence got the drop in 1830. Whilst this marked the end of capital punishment for homosexuals it also ushered in an era of more harrassment and police persecution in general. America was no better.
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Some major events in Britain and the U.S.:

Prior to 1533 CE: Anal sex in Britain was considered a religious infraction and was punished within ecclesiastical courts. It was not considered to be a civil offense against the state.
1533: A British "Buggery Statute" was enacted. It defined sodomy as sexual activity between two men or as bestiality involving an animal and either a man or woman.
1624: In the colony of Virginia, Captain Richard Cornish was charged under the British Buggery Statute with having raped his male servant. He was found guilty. Both the perpetrator and the victim were hanged.
1628: The British jurist Sir Edward Coke described same-sex behavior as "against the ordinance of the Creator and order of nature." He suggested that the usual execution techniques of burning alive or burying alive be replaced by simple hanging.
1629: "Five beastly Sodomiticall boys" confessed to homosexual activity. They were probably hanged, because Massachusetts law called for the death penalty for persons over 14 years of age who committed sodomy.
1631: In the first reported trial for homosexual sex in England, the Earl of Castlehaven was convicted of sodomy with his male servants. Because of his rank, he was beheaded.
1641: Sodomy became a capital crime in Massachusetts, but only between males.
1642: Connecticut included sodomy among its 12 capital crimes.
1646: Jan Creoli was executed in New Netherland (present-day New York) for sodomizing a ten-year old boy. His victim was "only" flogged.
1647: Rhode Island follows the lead of Massachusetts.
1656: New Haven passes a law making sodomy punishable by execution for both men and women.
1660: Jan Quisthout vander Linde was executed for sodomy. His victim, a boy, was whipped.
1662: Rhode Island passed a sodomy law.
1682: Pennsylvania, a Quaker colony, became the first jurisdiction in America to make sodomy a non-capital offence. Punishment was in the form of whipping, a fine equal to 1/3 of the offender's estate, and six months of hard labor.
1700: Pennsylvania amended its sodomy punishment to life imprisonment or castration.
1712: South Carolina adopted the British buggery law.
1718: The sodomy law in Pennsylvania was revised to make it a capital offense.
1718: New Hampshire passed its first sodomy law.
1719: Delaware passed a sodomy law.
1776: Maryland adopted English common law, which included the criminalization of sodomy.
1784: Georgia also adopted English common law.
1785: Massachusetts passed a sodomy law.
1787: New York passed a sodomy law.
1790: Pennsylvania and South Carolina each passed a sodomy law.
1791: The original 13 states ratified the Bill of Rights. By that time, they all treated sodomy as a criminal offense. Connecticut, Delaware, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina had specific sodomy laws in place. Maryland, Georgia, North Carolina, and Virginia had adopted either the common law of England or specific English statues; both criminalized sodomy. "Sodomy was a crime at common law in New Jersey at the time of the ratification of the Bill of Rights. The State enacted its first criminal sodomy law five years later." 3,4

In the years following independence from Britain, the death penalty was gradually removed from the former colonial laws. However, sexual behavior between persons of the same gender remained a criminal act throughout the U.S. until the 1960s.

In 1868, the Fourteenth Amendment was ratified. It guaranteed equal treatment for all persons under the law. At that time all but 5 of the 37 States in the Union had criminal sodomy laws. Subsequently, all of the states eventually outlawed sodomy.

Don't be deluded into thinking that it could not happen again, the Jews in Germany in the early 1930s thought that pogroms were a thing of the past.
I was over on the north coast with some old hippy mates last year and in a small town's cafe a local pillar of the community said to another group, "I think it's great that you have 'come out' because when you become a menace to society we can kill the lot of you". There were nods of approval around the room, latent fear and hate is there.
Appalling behavior and the type of thing that ought to be stopped but the thoughts can persist.


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 Post subject: Re: THE GAYING OF AMERICA
PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 14:09 
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Umm, bear with me if I don't follow, but it looks like the information you posted states that laws against homosexuality were introduced, and, well, people asking for same-sex marriage are asking for the opposite. So I don't see how this could lead to a "repeat" of the types of events posted. As well as this, you same information shows that over time, the world has become more accepting of homosexuality than the 16th century.

And, Godwin's law invoked, I don't think that Australia today is similar to Nazi Germany.

Hate-crimes and physical assault are already illegal, and gays are already a visible part of many communities. Forgive me if I sound naive, but pandering the worst parts of society - here exampled by the threat of physical violence and murder - is not any way to improve society at all. I mean, if you said Aboriginal Australians couldn't get married because some parts of society want to act violently towards them, or if you said Muslims couldn't get married for the same reason, you'd obviously be making a ridiculous anti-anti-discrimination argument, ignoring the constitution and its history of changes, ignoring anti-discrimination laws, and blatantly trashing the value of equality, and with it most forms of ethics. The protection argument makes no sense at all. I suppose you could follow Mumbai example and find a way to separate violent homophobes from the homosexual community, but to outlaw same-sex marriage because of violent threats is akin to giving in to terrorism.


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PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 15:00 
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If you could describe this in more detail or post a link or something this would be interesting to read - I don't really know anything about it

Well you did ask me.

Godwin's Law must inevitably surface in any discussion of homosexuality and society through time.
Not only the Jews were murdered by the Third Reich, homosexuals came in for their share as did the mentally retarded and Gypsies.
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. . . not any way to improve society at all. I mean, if you said Aboriginal Australians couldn't get married because some parts of society want to act violently towards them, or if you said Muslims couldn't get married for the same reason, you'd obviously be making a . . .

Well, I didn't say any of that.
What I said was
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Appalling behavior and the type of thing that ought to be stopped but the thoughts can persist.

I might add that despite all the talk of equality there is a persistent underlying distaste, even hatred, of homosexuals in Australian society and not only among the so called 'red necks'.
This is particularly noticeable listening to school children although the higher years are not really children.


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 Post subject: Re: THE GAYING OF AMERICA
PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 15:19 
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mcfate wrote:
If you could describe this in more detail or post a link or something this would be interesting to read - I don't really know anything about it

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Umm, bear with me if I don't follow, but it looks like the information you posted states that laws against homosexuality were introduced, and, well, people asking for same-sex marriage are asking for the opposite. So I don't see how this could lead to a "repeat" of the types of events posted. As well as this, you same information shows that over time, the world has become more accepting of homosexuality than the 16th century.

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Well you did ask me.


Yes, I did ask you. And then I responded. And I was hoping, because my response showed my confusion as to how that information supported your position rather than the opposite position, if you could clarify why you think it supports your position.

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Godwin's Law must inevitably surface in any discussion of homosexuality and society through time.
Not only the Jews were murdered by the Third Reich, homosexuals came in for their share as did the mentally retarded and Gypsies.


Not really. If there were conditions similar to Nazi Germany, though, I could understand. Without those conditions, it is not a very good reference point, because it is a meaningless comparison.

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Forgive me if I sound naive, but pandering the worst parts of society - here exampled by the threat of physical violence and murder - is not any way to improve society at all. I mean, if you said Aboriginal Australians couldn't get married because some parts of society want to act violently towards them, or if you said Muslims couldn't get married for the same reason, you'd obviously be making a ridiculous anti-anti-discrimination argument, ignoring the constitution and its history of changes, ignoring anti-discrimination laws, and blatantly trashing the value of equality, and with it most forms of ethics.

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Well, I didn't say any of that.


Well, you did put forward the idea that protecting homosexuals from physical violence was a reason not to support gay marriage. I understand that you didn't mention Aboriginals or Muslims, that's why I put the "if" in front of the sentence. I was not trying, as you probably know, to insinuate that you had said or would say it. I was pointing out the the arguments rest on the same logic, and that it would be contradictory to assert that this logic was valid for one group and not for others. In fact, I was assuming that you would not say or agree to those things, meaning that you agree the logic is invalid.

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Appalling behavior and the type of thing that ought to be stopped but the thoughts can persist.


Right. This is either a stand alone statement (where I agree with it), and has no impact on whether same-sex marriage should be legal and is appropriate, or it is a statement meant to support one position or the other. If it is the latter, and I took it to be, I must admit because of its context:

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Don't be deluded into thinking that it could not happen again, the Jews in Germany in the early 1930s thought that pogroms were a thing of the past.
I was over on the north coast with some old hippy mates last year and in a small town's cafe a local pillar of the community said to another group, "I think it's great that you have 'come out' because when you become a menace to society we can kill the lot of you". There were nods of approval around the room, latent fear and hate is there.
Appalling behavior and the type of thing that ought to be stopped but the thoughts can persist.


(you can see, you make an assertion the world might not be a safe place for the homosexual community in the future, and then you follow this statement immediately with an example of people who are adverse to homosexuality.) Well, because of this context I took it to mean that this was anecdotal evidence you were citing to support your position - i.e. that same-sex marriage would make the world a more dangerous place for homosexuals. But forgive me if you didn't mean to link the end of your post to the main part of your post and previous posts. You also mention this in your next post:

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I might add that despite all the talk of equality there is a persistent underlying distaste, even hatred, of homosexuals in Australian society and not only among the so called 'red necks'.
This is particularly noticeable listening to school children although the higher years are not really children.


So if this is not meant to relate to your stance on same-sex marriage, then I apologise that I have included it in my response as if you have. However, if you did mean for it to be related, then I have to say, again, that we should not pander to those that threaten with hate-crime and/or violence.

I might add that equality is not related to "distaste, even hatred". These are barriers to equality, but not arguments against equality.


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 Post subject: Re: THE GAYING OF AMERICA
PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 16:42 
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The de-valuing of hererosexual marriage by homosexuals is all part of why so many people in our society hate them; at the moment such hate is probably based on unknown or unrecognized factors, factors moreover which may be but figments of the imagination.

In the long run I think that the best and safest thing for homosexuals to do is to settle for a parallel form of civil union but not to insist on calling it marriage.
Many heterosexual people see this insistance on 'marriage' as being an attempt to drag heterosexuals down to the level of homosexuals; to destroy the legal and normal concept of marriage.


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 Post subject: Re: THE GAYING OF AMERICA
PostPosted: 18 Feb 2011 18:48 
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The de-valuing of hererosexual marriage by homosexuals is all part of why so many people in our society hate them; at the moment such hate is probably based on unknown or unrecognized factors, factors moreover which may be but figments of the imagination.


I agree, except that I think the de-valuing of heterosexual marriage is the figment of the imagination. It's not like homosexuals are going to go around tramping inside other people's marriages, disrupting their ceremonies, and so on. Nothing will change for heterosexuals. If they don't like that other people are joining their exclusive club, well, bad luck. People do not have to go to same-sex marriages, they don't have to invite homosexuals to their weddings, and if they want they don't have to be friends with them. You can't get much more free than that.

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In the long run I think that the best and safest thing for homosexuals to do is to settle for a parallel form of civil union but not to insist on calling it marriage.


The first time I read this I thought you said "In the short run", but then I had to re-read it. The thing that started this whole thread was the repeal of the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, which was a sort of stepping-stone to allowing homosexuals into the armed forces. When I incorrectly read your post as saying "In the short run", I thought you might mean something like this - today, civil unions, tomorrow, same-sex marriage. I can totally understand this point of view, even though I don't agree that it's necessary or the best thing to do. But in the long run? In the long run this type of discrimination will be a thing for the history books, as was women not getting the vote, or women having to retire when they married.

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Many heterosexual people see this insistance on 'marriage' as being an attempt to drag heterosexuals down to the level of homosexuals; to destroy the legal and normal concept of marriage.


Yeah. I guess I see religion as colouring their arguments - it's really the only reason I can see to think that homosexuals are somehow "lower" or "lesser" than heterosexuals. As to destroying the legal concept of marriage - well, laws change, just as the right to vote changed, or the right to employment, when discrimination by gender and race were removed from these laws. So marriage isn't some extreme example. And as I said, religious persons can be safe in the knowledge that their religion probably isn't going to change any time soon, and the religious concept of marriage with it.

As to the "normal" concept, well, that differs from culture to culture, and as I said, there are Muslim, Angilcan, Catholic, Hindu and atheist marriages in Australia (and probably more variants besides). The Catholic idea of marriage obviously doesn't fit the legal or Anglican meanings because they do not recognise divorce. So the meaning of marriage is varied as it is, but no particular meaning will suffer negatively as a result of legal equality.

This is one of those self-prophesising problems. If people think their values are being destroyed or belittled, or if people think that there will be some sort of violent backlash, it is all because these same people have a problem empathising with people who are different. If they didn't have that initial feeling, then there would be very little to talk about, and same-sex marriage would have happened already.


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Self-fulfilling prophecy.


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Meanwhile over in Uganda . . .


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Tom Palven wrote:
Self-fulfilling prophecy.


Or maybe self-fulfilling problem. There might be a better way to have phrased it, but, well, dunno.

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Meanwhile over in Uganda . . .


What is the lesson from Uganda . . . ?


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Keep a low profile in Uganda or you're likely to get killed.
A leading homosexual activist has just been murdered by being bludgeoned to death and the Parliament looks set to bring in the death penalty for sexual acts between consenting persons of the same sex.

It's in the papers.

Uganda gained independence from Britain on 9 October 1962, so that's nearly 50 years of independent government.
Surely someone saw the writing on the wall?


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So is your lesson "Be like the Ugandan government" or "Don't be like the Ugandan government"?

The Ugandan government does nothing to create an atmosphere of tolerance and equality and much against these. Australia could, if they wanted, take steps to promote greater tolerance and equality.


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Keep a low profile in Uganda or you're likely to get killed

which advice could be carried over into other jurisdictions.
'Poofter Bashing' as a sport is not yet dead in Australia.; just Google it.
We would all wish it otherwise but reality is real.


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But unlike Uganda it is illegal. So the question is, what should we as a society do when a problem occurs? Should we ask the victims and potential victims to give up their freedoms and the rest of us just ignore it? (that is, keep a low profile)


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We could ask them to enjoy their freedoms and not push things.


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So the question is, what should we as a society do when a problem occurs? Should we ask the victims and potential victims to give up their freedoms and the rest of us just ignore it? (that is, keep a low profile)


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We could ask them to enjoy their freedoms and not push things.


So just ignore it, then, and don't really worry about equality when someone threatens violence? Don't help people? Just leave violent people to it and don't suggest or promote any positive values like tolerance and acceptance? This sounds a lot like the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy that started this thread. Just imagine if this policy were used in the workplace. Or if it were Christians threatened with violence, or some other group.

I think it is really strange that your response to a group of people being threatened with violence is to tell that group to keep their head down and not to provide any assistance. Apart fro this issue, are there other issues where you give out the same advice? Are there any issues where you would stand up for people rights? I'm curious how you decide which is the most appropriate response for which issue.


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I think it is really strange that your response to a group of people being threatened with violence is to tell that group to keep their head down and not to provide any assistance

That is not my response I am merely saying that they should not push things.
I'm all for individuals from any law abiding group being protected and being able to protect themselves when unlawfully attacked if the police or other authorities are not able to do so.


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mcfate wrote:
I think it is really strange that your response to a group of people being threatened with violence is to tell that group to keep their head down and not to provide any assistance

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That is not my response I am merely saying that they should not push things.
I'm all for individuals from any law abiding group being protected and being able to protect themselves when unlawfully attacked if the police or other authorities are not able to do so.


You did specifically say to keep a low profile. And you didn't suggest or hint at anything constructive, like, there should be a raised awareness and encouragement of tolerance and acceptance. In other words, it seems you would rather ask homosexuals to suppress their individual behaviour (which is non-violent and non-threatening and does not really affect other people) and not ask people who threaten violence to homosexuals to suppress their behaviour (which, of course, is threatening, potentially violent behaviour, and one that is sure to cause stress and anxiety). So I don't think that I have misrepresented your position, unless you do feel that there should be positive action to allow people to live peacefully as they wish and discourage people from threatening violence. If that is the case, please correct me.


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PostPosted: 26 Feb 2011 15:27 
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That, Mc Fate, is exactly my case; people should be protected from violence and when the State cannot protect them, they should be encouraged to protect themselves. Keeping a low profile is one way of doing this.


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